For this article, I would like to shift things a few notches,
and let’s talk about something that will benefit a lot of people not just
Wiccans and paranormalists, but those people who are in the norms.
What turns a woman to a queen? Her abilities, her mindset,
her point of view, a good education, her thoughts. What makes a woman to a
queen, is it her ways, the way she talks, the way she moves, would it be her
actions? A lot of possible answers for one simple question lets break it down
then.
Her Abilities:
A queen knows how to make better judgment knows when to
speak and knows how to act most especially in public; it’s not just how she is
being alone in a room with her king, but most especially how she is supposed to
act when in front of people who are working with her king. She has the ability
to show people kindness and speaks only when spoken to, she never interrupts
people who are talking with others and acts accordingly making sure she doesn’t
put herself and her king in shame.
Her Mindset, her point of view:
A queen never thinks negatively about those people who give
her partner a compliment instead she should be proud that she is with him and
should speak and think highly about her partner, not the other way around. Her mindset is supposed to help her king
focus on what needs to be done to make a better turn; she should be supportive
of him and helps those that work for him instead of thinking badly about them
or thinking bad things to get rid of them.
A good education:
When was the last time you have heard of an uneducated
queen? Royalty has more than enough for themselves they can even afford an
education outside their own countries, in this case, if you lack education don’t
show it instead. try to do home school and start acting accordingly, there is
nothing wrong with admitting that a person doesn’t know something, who knows
maybe the person she gets to asked questions on will even help her with what
she needs, pushing people away is not an act of royalty and hate will never
take her anywhere that will help her gain what she lacks.
The way she speaks:
A lady should speak in a low tone voice, soft as a
whispering wind; this is what they say in the olden days, there is no such
thing as a barbaric queen, when you speak in a high tone voice people will be
judging you as a person who they cannot be close to, sometimes worst if a queen
is with her king she should be that person that would make her partner or
whoever she is with proud and that would make a king love his queen more, not
less.
So what makes a peasant? It is everything opposite of what I
have just discussed with you, not too long ago I met a person of such quality,
she is not pleasant, and I don’t think it’s really her fault, it could be her
culture, where she was raised, or how she is raised, she has insecurities on
the highest level that she tends to do anything just to speak badly about a person who she thought was trying to take something or someone away from her.
She doesn’t have class and even she dresses up in gold she will still be a
peasant to most women of my level its why personally I wouldn’t stoop to her
idea of a lifestyle. It’s not right no person should be subjected to bullying
by a person suffering from high levels of insecurities.
The reason why I wrote this is not for this person to read
and be annoyed but it’s for the women who are being treated unfairly, I hope
this article polishes your idea on what you are, every woman on this planet
deserves love, respect, and happiness from her partner, as every man deserves
to have a supportive and loving queen.
To those kings that read this article, if you felt that your
queen is not being supportive of your ordeals, your job, your lifestyle, hear
them out first then make your decision, you have to learn how to weigh things
if you felt your chain of thought is being stepped on then let it go, if you
feel that what she has to say to you makes sense, then make it up to her, give
her some time and talk about it. A real queen listens, knows and understands
her king for what he has to say to her.
To those women with a lot of insecurities, please stop,
you’re only hurting yourself in the process of making things worse for yourself
and those people you end up bullying, think before you speak because sometimes
your insecurities are not just hurting the person you are talking to but you are
hurting those who know them more than you do.