the Unseen Housemate

We just moved to this place about 4 months ago me and mom share the same room the other room I use as a stock room/work area, and my brother sleeps in a sofa bed in the living room. My mom wakes up every 4:30-5am and starts watching tv (morning show as usual and the news) while I sleep at around 3-5am for obvious reasons I do online home-based jobs at midnight till early in the morning. Normally there is just the three of us at home as I know I only cook for the three of us. One evening when mom was preparing for bed she told me she saw on her peripherals a young girl dressed in white in the bedroom but when she looked again there was no one there I never really paid much attention to it as I know me I don't really care much if there are spirits wanting to pass by the house as its already normal for me to see those or even feel them passing by, what bothers me is that whenever I wake up in the afternoon I turn off the fan and fix the bed, get to the bathroom and when I get back the fan is still turned on, and every time I asked my brother if he turned the fan on he swore he did not. either that or he is on the sofabed sleeping.

This has been happening continuously for the last 2 months and this month there was a tall slender man that I saw in my peripherals he isn't doing anything but when I saw him he just sat on the couch when I was typing an article it was a job thing. and I have a deadline that I need to meet within that night. He did not say anything, did not even made a move, nothing he just sat there waiting for something, I haven't a clue what it is till I looked at the couch and there was no one there, think maybe he gave up because I just really don't have the time to get scared of spirits.

The fan incident still continues up to now, tonight I stayed in my mom's room when she was using the computer naturally I had the fan on but as soon as I stood up I walked towards the fan and turned it off before I went to buy bread for tomorrow at the bakery outside the compound when I got back, as usual, the fan was on and my brother is watching a video on his phone, my mom, on my computer.

I will never really have a clue if the ghost in my mom's room is just feeling hot or what but do they ever feel what we feel? the temperature recently is very unstable it's quite cool during the evenings till early morning but summer hot during the afternoon, it does not feel anything like Christmas, but that is another story.

A Queen or a Peasant

For this article, I would like to shift things a few notches, and let’s talk about something that will benefit a lot of people not just Wiccans and paranormalists, but those people who are in the norms.

What turns a woman to a queen? Her abilities, her mindset, her point of view, a good education, her thoughts. What makes a woman to a queen, is it her ways, the way she talks, the way she moves, would it be her actions? A lot of possible answers for one simple question lets break it down then.

Her Abilities:

A queen knows how to make better judgment knows when to speak and knows how to act most especially in public; it’s not just how she is being alone in a room with her king, but most especially how she is supposed to act when in front of people who are working with her king. She has the ability to show people kindness and speaks only when spoken to, she never interrupts people who are talking with others and acts accordingly making sure she doesn’t put herself and her king in shame.

Her Mindset, her point of view:

A queen never thinks negatively about those people who give her partner a compliment instead she should be proud that she is with him and should speak and think highly about her partner, not the other way around.  Her mindset is supposed to help her king focus on what needs to be done to make a better turn; she should be supportive of him and helps those that work for him instead of thinking badly about them or thinking bad things to get rid of them.

A good education:

When was the last time you have heard of an uneducated queen? Royalty has more than enough for themselves they can even afford an education outside their own countries, in this case, if you lack education don’t show it instead. try to do home school and start acting accordingly, there is nothing wrong with admitting that a person doesn’t know something, who knows maybe the person she gets to asked questions on will even help her with what she needs, pushing people away is not an act of royalty and hate will never take her anywhere that will help her gain what she lacks.

The way she speaks:

A lady should speak in a low tone voice, soft as a whispering wind; this is what they say in the olden days, there is no such thing as a barbaric queen, when you speak in a high tone voice people will be judging you as a person who they cannot be close to, sometimes worst if a queen is with her king she should be that person that would make her partner or whoever she is with proud and that would make a king love his queen more, not less.

So what makes a peasant? It is everything opposite of what I have just discussed with you, not too long ago I met a person of such quality, she is not pleasant, and I don’t think it’s really her fault, it could be her culture, where she was raised, or how she is raised, she has insecurities on the highest level that she tends to do anything just to speak badly about a person who she thought was trying to take something or someone away from her. She doesn’t have class and even she dresses up in gold she will still be a peasant to most women of my level its why personally I wouldn’t stoop to her idea of a lifestyle. It’s not right no person should be subjected to bullying by a person suffering from high levels of insecurities.

The reason why I wrote this is not for this person to read and be annoyed but it’s for the women who are being treated unfairly, I hope this article polishes your idea on what you are, every woman on this planet deserves love, respect, and happiness from her partner, as every man deserves to have a supportive and loving queen.

To those kings that read this article, if you felt that your queen is not being supportive of your ordeals, your job, your lifestyle, hear them out first then make your decision, you have to learn how to weigh things if you felt your chain of thought is being stepped on then let it go, if you feel that what she has to say to you makes sense, then make it up to her, give her some time and talk about it. A real queen listens, knows and understands her king for what he has to say to her.

To those women with a lot of insecurities, please stop, you’re only hurting yourself in the process of making things worse for yourself and those people you end up bullying, think before you speak because sometimes your insecurities are not just hurting the person you are talking to but you are hurting those who know them more than you do.

Lady in the Elevator

Sometime not too long ago, probably over about a month ago just before I have moved to my new condo, I was asked by my mom to go buy something at the convenient store it has something to do with the packing that was going on in the unit so I have to go get dressed before going out of the door. I have this weird hobby of checking out who else is waiting for the elevator to come up as we are on the 16^th floor, so I went out of the door and looked out, there was a lady wearing a long black skirt and a white polo shirt top least that is what I thought it was but was not carrying anything just waiting by the elevator, where we live is a bit far from where the lady was standing so I hurried inside to get my wallet and try catching the elevator door before it closes should it arrive.

I brisk walk as fast as I could when I was about a few steps away the lady moved and walked straight in thinking she would be holding the door open I said “Please wait!” but as soon as I get to the elevator the first the elevator was on the ground floor and the other one is still on the 20^th floor and there is no way the elevator in the ground floor can go down that fast as when I was walking towards it should be at least on the 10^th or the 7^th floor at least.

When I got down to the ground floor I asked the guards on the lobby if they saw the lady wearing a black skirt and white buttoned shirt going out of the first elevator on the left, they answered No and that that the elevator is currently being fixed it's why it’s open from the ground floor, that just sank in me that that lady that I saw was no neighbor and that she could be just a memory from the past. The look on that lady as I was approaching her has no emotion, no expression and just plain empty.

In such a short time, I have left in the building I asked some friends around if they remember such a person that looked like what I have described and some say it must be one of the unit owners from the same floor but none of my neighbors look anything like the one I just described, then one of the security personnel that has been working there for a long time told me a story of a lady that used to live on the same floor as I am, she left for work and was never found ever again, was wearing the same clothing as I have described, a white buttoned shirt and a long black skirt, her hair was tied up not on a ponytail but it's like  how I tie my hair up using chopsticks, a bit skinny, Spanish looking and fair complexion.

Who is she? What happened to her? I don’t know only time will tell if I would still have time to come visit that place again and try to see if I can talk to that spirit if she is one, but if it’s just a memory then I believe there is a message she wants to tell people, whatever it is I know one day she will open up to someone, someone living in the same unit as she does a long time ago.

Find your Courage to Go Beyond

In this day and age a lot of people from all over thrive for a living. Why can’t we start thriving for greatness? How? We start with our mindset.

Mindset:

In this world we work, go home, not taking time to check out what is going on in our surroundings, best way to understand this is for us to take a time out on what we do on our daily lives, we take a step out of the ordinary and into what we don’t usually do, free our minds and open up to nature for instance, for a few hours or even just minutes a day walk around do a bit of sightseeing and embrace freedom to clear our minds and and restart our system to create new ideas and create a breakthrough.

Having a clear mindset can open up a lot of things for us including having better perspective, a stronger mentality and creating better options of what to make out of our lives.



Reactivating the inner You:
People who work in companies, especially low leveled workers tend to become the work itself these things happen when our inner persona is hidden somewhere in the idea of being an ordinary worker. We tend to forget who we really are thus we stop believing in what we are and what we can do to better our lives. We stop becoming the workforce and become the robots that does work, we lose the mindset and we lose ourselves.

Best idea to avoid all this is to start a reflection to come about a revelation, this starts the process to reeducating the inner you to come out and start being who we wanted to be. We start to learn new things and open up to new ideas, remembering that living is a lifelong process, and we do not stop learning new things everyday just because we got so stuck up in a daily routine. Then we grow, we flourish and the growth begins,


Faults and Failures:

In our journey to greatness we experience faults and failures and to those who haven’t any idea on how to deal with these sorts of things we tend to suffer from depressions and anxiety, frankly faults and failures is a part of greatness, it’s what I would call humps and bumps on the road to success.

Once a soldier fails for the first time its common instinct that a soldier stands up and fights the battle again, here’s a news for you, life is a battle, a battle that you should win, no one is allowed to lose in the battle to greatness, a great person that stands up after a mistake and fights the battle again wins, why? Because it’s not the battle that you are fighting with its number of beatings you take that counts, everytime a person stands up after failure is a winning count. 

A person can get beaten up a number of times but in life the longer you stand up and continue the journey the better you become in succeeding. Why? Because in life you will always get your chance to change, a person gets his chance to stand up and get back up; no matter how deep is the ocean, once you get to reach the bottom there will always be one way out and that is getting back up and start over.


Learning is a lifelong process:

As we get older we always tend to learn new things to improve ourselves we always learn new things to start somewhere, if a person did not make it while a person is young there is always room for growth, all a person needs to do is to open up and understand, listen and start making its move towards that road you can always have a rest a long the way its not like a prerequisite that you continue moving, time is everything, and in life time will give us that ability to always move forward and move up.

Mistakes - is just a bump on the road, when you are driving a car and you get to pass on that bump think of it this way, you don’t pass that bump then you wont get to your destination, it’s just a hiccup, we have to pass through those mistakes to find the better life for us and our loved ones.

the Demons are in Social Media

Over a year ago people started talking about a scare that was all over social media they call it Blue Whale and its a Suicide game. And since when did suicide became a game in the first place? I am not sure and I have no clue, but this game in reality started in Russia a 21 year old goes by the name Philipp Budeikin has started manipulating teenagers and pushingt them to commit suicide.

Philipp Budeikin is being held on charges of inticing at least 16 schoolgirls to kill themselves by taking part in his social media craze called Blue Whale 

They communicate using whatsapp a phone application I used to use to contact friends and family from outside my country, I am certainly not sure why this app is allowing these kinds of cyber terrorism to happen.  There are reports also that these calls and messages are being done by hackers, I suggest beware.

Today there is a new craze going on and its call Momo Challenge who does the same thing but this one tries to manipulate kids and I am not just talking about kids I am talking 5-7 year old children, and despite the fact that its not just teaching children how to cause harm to themselves this one is even messageing and calling them yet telling them that if they dont finished all the tasks it says that momo will come and kill them.  Personally I think its pretty scary for children to hear or even read something like that from a cartoon character.

Momo challenge character is actually a Japanese sculpture of a demon half bird

People claims that there are also some MOMO challenge clips popping up on youtube kids channels, they said that this character is actually giving suicide tips and giving children ideas on assult and more heineous crimes.  This is actually a form of cyber terrorism as it can manipulate children to do things no normal child will do.

To all the parents out there that are reading this post, I would suggest that you start checking on what your children play on their phones as there are demons lurking around the internet and they can cause more harm, try to find ways to bond with your kids more and keep them alive and healthy, these mind games that are going in circulation cannot hurt anyone if you and your children have a strong mind and will. Also another issue that may cause your children to follow these so called games would be depression, dont be a storm to your children if they ask you for something but be there for them if they need a hand.

Vlog - Jealousy, Envy and Anger

In this world are we really into the idea of destroying the competition by means of jealousy and anger?  How far would anger drive us? Is it normal? Do people having anger management issues know what they are doing to their so called enemies? Consciously if you send threatening messages to those we hate. are we aware that instead of destroying the competition we are actually destroying ourselves.